Is it possible to think of a self-independent of my body? If I were a civil servant in his 40s, would I have had the same thoughts? Or if I were a very beautiful 20-year-old girl in America, could I host these thoughts? What if I were one of those people I see all the time? For example, if my best friend was with me. Could I have the same thoughts if I was just her in the body? I think it would be a lie to say that this will happen.

I'm happy with my body. As if wanting to be independent of her would hurt him, but my mind needs it. All my efforts to understand myself will be wasted if I identify my thoughts with my body, which I am sure will one day lose, or even if I live, that its appearance will certainly change. I am aware that even the room I am in now affects my thoughts today, but it is up to me to get out of this room. I cannot give up my body, so I need to understand what it is pushing me to think.

I've been aware lately that when I'm thinking about someone, I'm thinking in comparison to my own body. I am tall, he is short, not like these thoughts. As if my body was a measurement in the middle of everything and I had to measure everyone to that extent first. There is no good or bad result from this measurement. But for some reason, I make sure I measure everyone.

We are beings who direct our thoughts with every position we are in, with the appearance of our body. At least I am. Even to think of someone with only his thoughts, we should not have any expectations from him. Because we expect people whose thoughts we like to look beautiful, even if they are for us. The beauty here is not the beauty of 'beauty and handsomeness'. For example, a calmer person, more controlled, better dressed, better self-explanatory, or something like that. Again, we expect something better.

So is this a problem that needs to be solved or is it a feature of being human?